If you have downloaded a popular dating app or if you want to do it the traditional way, if you are here we know you are ready to dive into the world of love. Dating is exciting. If you crack the nerve of following the basic rule, it can turn into a beautiful relationship. To help you further, we bring you 5 fantastic dating tips you can use to get closer to the person you are dating.
Gone are the days when dating was considered embarrassing. One had to struggle a lot to silently look for a companion. Today, the world is full of stories about couples meeting through dating apps. Though the old school way of locking eyes in the crowd did get your heart singing. But technology today has not left any stone unturned to make it easy for people to find their match.
Dating can be complicated, so get ready for those failed attempts. You take the first meeting to the next step or you choose to stop there, these fabulous dating tips would help you be a gentleman or wise woman on your date.
1. Don’t look for sex, get to know the person first
Don’t judge by the online profile. What you assume can be totally different from what the reality is. Haven’t you bluffed on your profile? So, knowing the person by talking and a meeting is the first step. Basic introduction by asking about each other can give a good kick start. No sex talks when you meet or even on the chat window. You can keep it saved for the right day. When you find someone on a dating app, both of you are strangers. So, there will be so much both of you want to explore about each other. We understand you know the social media stalking trick. However, keeping that minimal and directly knowing the person will give you confidence about the other person.
Tip for Men – Women today do not like men asking too many questions. It gives a feeling that you are interrogating.
Tip for Women – Men like it when women show interest in their life. Ensure you do not jump into asking salary, bank balance, or how many before you.
2. Meet in a public place
When you are invited to meet in a public place, you know the intentions of the other person are right. Likewise, if you take the opportunity to invite, make you’re the other person feel comfortable about the place.
Tip for Men – Women feel safe and comfortable if it is a coffee shop, a bar or a restaurant, or even her favorite place which could be a museum or a bookstore.
Tip for Women – Men prefer the bar more than the coffee shop.
3. Keep the Count Low
When you are on a dating app, you may be matched with multiple people. The biggest complication could be what you talk to them about. You do not want to goof up during your chat when you realize it was said by someone else and you took it up by some other person.
Tip for Men & Women – This dating tip is for both. Engage with as many as you can handle. Keeping 100 options open does not work.
4. Don’t exaggerate, be yourself
Learn the art of knowing how much to tell. Wait till you develop a connection before you spill your dirty secrets. If the other person genuinely likes you, he/she will take the time to know you. Telling everything in the first chat, it will not leave anything for the next date.
Tip for Men – Don’t over say about your money and property in the initial days.
Tip for Women – Come out of the world of me, my, I.
5. Give compliments and make it a 2-way talk
Talking is the most important thing on any date. What you talk about makes a lot of difference. So, no ex-talks, please! It is very evident that when 2 people meet, they want to know about each other. This does not mean you can talk about that third person who is your ex. You can talk about each other’s likes, habits, life goals, etc. Make your conversation interesting by giving compliments. Ensure complements are not specific to body shape or color of the skin. Further, try and make it a two-way communication.
Tip for Men – Women like to date men who listen. So, be a good listener.
Tip for Women – Men like women who appreciate their doing. So, don’t save those beautiful words of compliments.
We hope the above list of dating tips work in your favor. To begin with, make your online dating profile with a unique username. The other person is not interested in your city’s zip code. Further, your profile picture will be the first impression. You may hear from the other side – “Your profile picture made me click on your profile.” If you are hunting for men on dating apps, we must tell you those good men don’t get attracted to no picture profile. Men are not against shirtless pictures though! It’s just that they don’t want it as your profile picture.
We hope you take it to the next level. So if you meet your date ensure you keep a few more dating tips in mind. You may not want to spend time with a person who has come just to eat. So, if you have to order food keep it light and stick to one or max two items. And if you drink regularly, you need to control it here. You will not be loved by your date if you have red eyes and don’t know what he is talking about.
Finally, we would say, don’t stop the journey of meeting new people. Continue your hunt for the right match, be a nice person and you will find your dream person.
Top Dating Apps:
- QuackQuack
- Tinder
- Happn
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